You’re only 5 steps and a few hours away from enjoying a real-life shemale hookup. We know there’s nothing more enticing than a beautiful shemale. We feel the same way. However, finding an actual shemale to spend a night of passion with can be quite difficult.

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We’ve spent the past year and a half searching for these beauties. We’ve also perfected our game when it comes to actually hooking up with a transsexual online. All you need to do is follow the steps below and you’ll be well on your way to find an actual shemale hookup.

Step by Step Guide to Enjoying an Actual Shemale Hookup

Finding a trans woman to hook up with is not like finding a female, believe us, we’ve tried. Sure, there are some local hangouts that are known for having a transsexual clientele, but these are usually calls-girls. This is not what we mean by a shemale hookup. A hookup is two people enjoying a casual night of sex because both of them are excited to be there, not because there is an exchange of money.

Luckily, we live in a time where adult hookup sites make it easy to find an actual shemale to have sex with. However, finding the right site is no easy task. We’ve joined and tested dozens of the top hookup sites in our search for transsexuals.

What We Encountered During Our Search for Local Shemale Hookups

  • Many sites that were filled with fake profiles.
  • Tons of communities that were filled with ads from shemale prostitutes.
  • A lot of the sites were filled with shemale profiles but unfortunately, these were not real shemales. They simply spam ads looking to get our information.
  • Sites that had some real transsexuals, but most of them looked more like men than anything else (Yes, we’re a little picky).

We searched and scoured the net in order to find the best site with real, pretty shemales.

Fortunately, we found the perfect solution. A site with genuine members. Genuine transsexuals that were also pretty. Most importantly, they were not looking to get paid. They were simply horny shemales looking for a good time.

Step 1 – Become Part of the Right Shemale Hookup Site

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This brings us to step one of our guide. Joining the right community.

TSDates is part of the AdultFriendFinder family. They’ve taken all the transgender profiles from their 80 million strong database and added them to TSDates. On top of that, they’ve managed to run many successful advertising campaigns that have helped grow the transgender community on TSDates to a place where every man seeking the companionship of a beautiful shemale, no matter where they’re located, is able to find just that.

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Step 2 – Craft the Right Profile to Entice Transsexuals

Profile to Attract Shemales

Adult hookup sites are quite similar to dating sites. The only way they differ is that the members on hookup sites are interested in hooking up for casual sex instead of regular dating. However, if you’re looking for a long-term┬árelationship with a transsexual, TSDates will help you find that as well. Sometimes it’s better to kick things off casually before stepping into a full-fledged relationship. At least that’s how we see it.

Your profile is going to be very important. When you send out messages, before replying, the recipient will surely take a glance at our profile. So we need to make it appealing, unique, and enticing.

Because TSDates is linked to AdultFriendFinder, many of the massages the transsexuals receive are from men that have not crafted their profile to attract solely transsexuals. This will work in our favor as we are crafting our profile especially to meet shemales. Before we move any further, let me just say that the term “shemale” may seem a little harsh to some of the transgendered members on TSDates or anywhere else for that matter. Your best bet is to stick to using the term “transsexual”. Just thought I’d point that out. I’m not going to get into our political views here, but just to make sure you don’t offend anyone, avoid using the term shemale in their presence or anywhere on your profile.

Registration

When you first visit TSDates, you’ll see a box on the right-hand side of your screen. This is the registration box. Fill out your gender and what you’re looking for first. I’m guessing “I am a Man” Looking for “TS/TV/TGs” fits here for you.

The next step is to enter your birthdate. There’s really no reason to lie here. A lot of people are under the impression that claiming the be a different age is somehow beneficial. Believe us, it’s not. Be honest here. It’ll spare you a ton of issues that can arise.

Country and zip code need to be filled out honestly because this will be used to populate the profiles that are shown to you and the transsexuals near you. We want to let all the shemales near us know that we’re available, nearby, and interested in TS.

Next, enter an email, a username, and a password. When it comes to your username, avoid writing something like “ShemaleLover” etc.

Enter your race, body type, sexual orientation, and marital status.

Next is the More About You section. Here, we want to mention that we are interested in meeting Transsexuals. Make it clear that your intent for joining is strictly to meet transsexuals. This may seem redundant seeing that TSDates is a site dedicated to helping you meet transsexuals, but keep in mind that a lot of the members you’ll encounter are coming directly from the AFF database. So this is an important step.

Confirm your email address and your account is all set.

You can upgrade your members here or you can skip this part. TSDates lets you use the site for free in order to gauge for yourself whether or not it is worth joining.

View Profile

Click on “View Profile”. It’s time to add some photos and videos.

You can be as lewd as you like here. TSDates has no issue with nude photos or pornographic videos. In fact, it’s encouraged.

Step 3 – Search for Members

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Now that you’ve got your profile all set up, other members will be able to find you. Hopefully, your profile is enough to entice some transsexual members to get in touch with you. When they search for members near them, they’ll be presented with profiles of local men that are interested in transsexuals. You’ll be showing up in their search results.

However, there’s no reason to sit around waiting for someone to contact you.

Head on over to the “Search members near me” section.

Your filters should already be set up to search for shemales near you. If it isn’t, you can adjust the filters before searching.

You’ll get a list of all the transsexuals near you.

Start PMing all the shemales that you find attractive and would like to hook up with in real life.

When sending out your messages, try to be original. “Hey babe” or “You’re hot” isn’t good enough. Sure, some may reply, but a unique PM will yield much better results.

A Little Trick to Increase Response

Here’s a little trick I use that always helps me get tons of replies. Before sending out a private message, spend a little time checking out her profile. See what she’s into and try to find some common ground. Break the ice by mentioning something you have in common. If you’ve never been with a trans person before, it’s okay to mention this as well. Be honest about this as it will enhance your first experience with a shemale. If you craft your PM correctly and mention something she’s into, you’re sure to get tons of responses.

Don’t sit around waiting for a reply. Keep scrolling down the list and continue to contact more shemales you find attractive and are willing to hook up with. When the messages start coming in, be sure to reply promptly. Try to keep a bunch of conversations going. This will help you set up multiple dates in the near future. I’m sometimes able to set up 3-4 real-life dates with transsexuals in a single night if I put a little effort into it.

Step 4 – Taking Your Shemale Hookup Offline

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If you’ve followed all the previous steps properly, you should have a few replies from interested transsexuals. It’s time to take things offline. Something you can’t ignore is the fact that a lot of the transsexuals on this site will be a little hesitant to actually meet up with someone they barely know. What you need to do here is establish trust. This is key in order to make sure they’re willing to meet you in real life.

One thing that you never want to do is suggest meeting up somewhere private like your house or a hotel room. This can raise a red flag and cause them to terminate the conversation. Always suggest meeting up somewhere public. This will set their mind at ease. Unfortunately, we live in a sick world where some people have hatred towards transsexuals and homosexuals. They’re ten times more likely to be beaten up and killed than a woman. Trust must be established. Personally, I’m okay with sharing my social media accounts with them. A quick glance at my facebook profile assures them that I’m safe to meet up with. Maybe this isn’t something you’re willing to do so make sure you offer to meet up in public if this is the case. By sharing my Facebook account with some of the transsexuals on this site I’ve been able to actually set up our first date at my place without even having to meet in public first.

Step 5 -Enjoy Your Shemale Hookup

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Now that you’ve gotten all the boring stuff out of the way you’re finally ready to enjoy your shemale hookup.

If you’re nervous, mention this. Say something like “I’m so excited to be with you but I’m a little nervous”. Don’t be afraid to express your feelings. There’s no reason to hide how you feel. Chances are, you’re not the first guy she’s been with that’s in this position. A few drinks are definitely going to help calm those jitters.

You’re in for the night of your life and I wish you the most pleasurable experience you’ve ever had.